Ice Queen and Fake Dating Are Sapphic Readers' Favourite Tropes. So Why Are They So Rare?
Ask sapphic readers which tropes they love most and two answers come up again and again: the ice queen and fake dating. Both sit at the top of author Jae's long-running sapphic reader polls. Readers keep asking for them. So we checked how often they actually get written. Lesbian Romance Reads coded 517 sapphic romances for 35 tropes, and the answer is: not often. The numbers Ice queen is readers' #1 trope. It appears in 8.1% of books. It also has the highest reliable Goodreads average of any trope in the dataset, 4.18. Fake dating is readers' #2 trope. It appears in only 4.4% of books. Medical romance is readers' #6 trope. It appears in 0.8% of books. Meanwhile, slow burn (33.8%), found family (32.7%) and age gap (28.4%) are everywhere. Why the gap? One explanation is that sapphic publishing follows the wider romance market rather than its own readers. In a 2025 ThriftBooks survey of 2,000 general romance readers, fake dating was among the three most d...